Kenyan singer and entrepreneur Esther Akoth, popularly known as Akothee, recently opened up about the reasons behind the collapse of her marriage to Swiss businessman Denis Schweizer, also known as Mister Omosh. In a candid interview with radio presenter Gidi Ogidi on the “Gidi na Ghost Asubuhi” show, the 43-year-old artist revealed that her marriage ended due to hidden truths that surfaced after their April 2023 wedding. Specifically, Akothee disclosed that Omosh had concealed significant personal struggles, including mental health issues, which she only learned about after their union.
Hidden Challenges and Mental Health Issues
During the interview, Akothee explained that one of the major reasons for her decision to separate from Omosh was the secrecy surrounding his mental health. She admitted that while she initially believed their relationship was solid, she later discovered internal struggles Omosh was facing—challenges that he had not revealed to her prior to their marriage.
“What made me leave him was that he didn’t tell me his inner truth, that he had health challenges, specifically mental health issues,” Akothee said, adding that she wasn’t implying he was “insane,” but he had mental health conditions, possibly bipolar disorder. The singer expressed deep disappointment over the fact that Omosh had not been upfront about his condition before they married, a decision she felt undermined the foundation of trust in their relationship.
“I asked him why he hadn’t told me before we got married. He embarrassed me in front of people,” Akothee shared during the interview, emphasizing the importance of transparency in relationships, especially in marriage. She explained that it wasn’t the condition itself that hurt her, but the deception and withholding of such critical information that shattered her trust in him.
The Pressure of Marriage
Akothee, a mother of five, highlighted that marriage, like many other aspects of life, can come to an end if the foundation is not built on trust and honesty. While addressing the challenges she faced, she expressed her frustration with Omosh for not being completely open with her from the start. She drew parallels between marriage and chewing gum, saying that even Big-G, a popular brand of chewing gum, “loses its sweetness, and you have to spit it out.”
“You know marriage is a relationship between two people. You meet someone with 32 teeth, not knowing where they come from, or where they are going, or how they are faring. You want love, but you don’t know what this person wants,” Akothee said, reflecting on the uncertainties that come with getting into a relationship. Her comments underscored the importance of entering into marriage with clarity and mutual understanding, something she feels was lacking in her marriage to Omosh.
Men and Relationships with Women Over 40
In the same interview, Akothee offered advice to men, particularly those in relationships with women over 40. She cautioned men to take relationships seriously, especially when courting women in this age group. According to Akothee, women in their 40s are typically at a stage in life where they no longer have time for casual or unserious relationships, and they expect commitment and honesty from their partners.
“You know, at this age of 40, we don’t have time for jokes. We don’t like jokes. So if you are courting a woman in her 40s, this is the time for seriousness, don’t joke with us about marriage. Even if you just want to ask for water, we know you want to marry us. We believe you,” she said. Akothee’s words reflect the heightened expectations that women in their 40s often have when it comes to relationships, as they prioritize stability and sincerity.
A Marriage That Ended Too Soon
Akothee’s marriage to Omosh, which took place in a lavish ceremony in Nairobi in April 2023, seemed to be a dream wedding at the time. However, the union lasted only two months, with the couple separating in June. The swift end to their marriage, after such a highly publicized wedding, took many by surprise. However, Akothee’s revelations provide some clarity on the underlying reasons for the breakup, with the singer emphasizing the pain she felt from being deceived.
While she did not delve into all the details of their relationship’s demise, Akothee’s story serves as a reminder of the importance of honesty in marriage. As she continues to focus on her career and personal life, the singer has urged men to take relationships with older women seriously and not to hide essential truths that could undermine the partnership in the long run.
In conclusion, Akothee’s story is one of heartbreak, but also a powerful message about the value of transparency in relationships. Her candidness about the challenges she faced with Omosh highlights the significance of mental health awareness and the need for open communication in any marriage.
