Kenyan socialite Amber Ray has openly addressed her past as a second wife, defending her actions and speaking candidly about the lessons she learned. In a recent social media post, Amber reflected on the criticisms she received after sharing her opinion about Annie Idibia’s struggles with her husband, Nigerian singer 2Face Idibia. Amber was accused of hypocrisy and labeled as a “side chick” due to her past relationship as a second wife to a prominent businessman.
“I’ve been called a hypocrite, and accused of making other women cry because I was once a second wife,” Amber said. “But let me remind you, I’ve shared my truth openly. Yes, I was married twice as a second wife, but I didn’t know they were married. I was lied to, used, and left to carry all the blame blame I took as a lesson.”
Amber has made no secret of her past, including posting a YouTube video to further share her story and acknowledge her mistakes. She also pointed out that, while people criticize her, other women continue to willingly enter into similar situations, often becoming someone’s “side chick” without knowing the full truth. Amber emphasized that she has already paid the price for her past decisions and has learned from them. “I’ve owned my truth, and I’m moving forward to live my best life unapologetically,” she added.
Her comments came after she expressed sympathy for Annie Idibia, who had recently revealed that her long-term marriage to 2Face had ended, partly due to his infidelity. Amber, a mother of two, expressed her heartbreak for Annie, stating that after 25 years of marriage, she couldn’t imagine the emotional toll Annie must be experiencing. “My heart breaks for Annie. The pain, the betrayal, the overwhelming emotions, and to add insult to injury, the relentless attacks on social media… It’s a lot for one person to endure,” Amber shared.
In her message of support to Annie, Amber reminded women everywhere to prioritize their well-being. She stressed that it is crucial to put one’s happiness, mental health, and emotional well-being above all else. She further explained that, especially for mothers, it’s important to lead by example and prioritize their mental health for the sake of their children.
Amber’s reflective post highlights the importance of self-care, emotional healing, and learning from the past while moving forward with confidence. For Amber Ray, owning her story has become an empowering lesson that she now uses to inspire others.
