Cheating Should Not Be a Reason to Leave Men, Says Sarah Kabu

Sarah Kabu, a well-known businesswoman and former chairperson of the Goat Wives Association, recently made headlines with her bold opinion that cheating should not be a reason for women to leave their husbands. In an exclusive interview with KTN Home, Sarah discussed her decision to step down from her leadership role after a five-year term, her perspective on marital challenges, and her efforts to empower women through content creation.

The Goat Wives Association, which Sarah chaired for five years, is an informal group that brings together women in supportive marriages, particularly those with wealthy partners. Sarah, who is a prominent entrepreneur and philanthropist, decided to hand over the reins of the association, citing the typical presidential term limit of five years. She explained, “I think I decided to take away that seat, give it to someone else. I think I had been over there for over five years, and even the Presidential term limit runs for five years. I feel after five years, you’ve done enough. So, I’ve given it to someone else, to take it to the next level.”

Sarah’s recent statements come in the wake of her involvement in a viral “Goat Wife” challenge in February 2024, a movement that gained traction on social media and sparked debates around the roles women play in marriages. In a video that captured the attention of many, Sarah detailed her daily life, stating, “Of course, I am a goat wife. As a goat wife, I wake up every day by 6 AM and start by praying for my family.” She continued, “I’m proud that my husband bought me this car. I start my day by jogging or gymming with my husband. I love cooking for my husband but once in a while, I don’t mind him paying back by taking me out for breakfast, lunch, or dinner somewhere special. I support my husband’s hustle, we work in the same office. Although I have my money, I get a small monthly allowance from my husband.”

Despite the idyllic image portrayed in her videos, Sarah also addressed a deeper issue that many women face in relationships. She revealed that she had recently shared a TikTok video advising women on the complexities of modern relationships. In the video, she expressed concern over how husbands often invite side chicks on family vacations, a situation that resonates with many women who feel betrayed or neglected. Her message was clear: “When you are on holiday and you hear women say, ‘Oh, he has just left, I suspect there is someone in another hotel,’ I just wanted to tip off women because we have those who may not know that these things happen.”

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But it was her stance on cheating that really caught the public’s attention. Sarah declared that cheating should not be the end of a marriage. “Cheating should not be one of the reasons we leave men,” she said, “Let’s worry about other bigger things, rather than whether he’s cheating or not. When you become unbothered, they become worried. How come you are not checking on me? You are not praying for me?” She encouraged women to “play it cool” and not constantly chase after their husbands, stressing that men should be allowed to be who they were created to be.

Sarah’s opinion may seem controversial to some, but she also provided a cautionary note to women in troubled marriages. “If your life is not in danger, if you’re not under any threat, and he is just having fun, let him be,” she advised. She pointed out that many couples are separating unnecessarily, and she believes that unless the situation is life-threatening, there’s no need to walk away from a marriage over infidelity.

Her philosophy of letting go of constant suspicion and focusing on more meaningful aspects of life challenges the traditional views on marriage, especially in African cultures where fidelity is often seen as a cornerstone of relationships. Sarah, who has three children and a successful business, is not advocating for tolerating abuse or dangerous behavior, but rather for prioritizing peace and personal growth over the trivial pursuit of checking every action of one’s spouse.

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Through her foundation, The Virtuous Woman, Sarah continues to provide support and encouragement to women, helping them navigate the pressures and complexities of modern relationships. By sharing her personal experiences and insights, she aims to inspire women to take charge of their own happiness and to foster resilience in their marriages.

As Sarah Kabu’s views continue to generate conversation, one thing is clear: she’s pushing for a shift in how women view themselves in relationships, advocating for a more balanced approach to love and commitment. Whether you agree with her or not, her message challenges traditional notions and invites women to reassess their priorities and values in marriage.