Veteran gospel artist and disability advocate Daddy Owen has found himself at the center of public scrutiny after his performance during the Jamhuri Day celebrations led by President William Ruto. In a recent social media post, the “Vanity” hitmaker expressed frustration over a wave of harassment that ensued when his personal contacts were leaked online, leading to an overwhelming flood of calls and messages from Kenyans.
This incident, humorously referred to as “kusalimiwa” (being greeted), left Daddy Owen balancing between outrage and moments of meaningful connection with fans and critics alike.
A Harrowing Experience of Public Scrutiny
On his X account (formerly Twitter), Daddy Owen recounted how his phone became a hub of activity after his number was shared online by a user identified as Gaitho. The leak prompted an array of reactions from Kenyans, ranging from harsh criticism to heartfelt support.
“Yesterday, I was greeted by Kenyans! Sema kusalimiwa! Gaitho shared my number so I could be greeted! My phone was blowing up with calls, texts, WhatsApp messages, and even a ton of Mpesa transactions. (Yes, they were sending me small amounts of money),” the musician shared.
The messages reflected the diverse opinions of Kenyans regarding his decision to perform at the state function, with many accusing him of being a sellout for appearing at an event organized by the government. Others, however, approached him with curiosity or genuine admiration.
Breaking Down the Reactions
Daddy Owen categorized the interactions into six distinct groups, painting a vivid picture of the responses he received:
- 30%: Pure insults. This group sent him unfiltered abuse, showing no restraint in expressing their disapproval.
- 20%: Logical and inquisitive callers. These individuals sought to understand his reasoning behind performing. Following discussions, many appeared to appreciate his perspective.
- 20%: Excited fans. Some simply took advantage of the opportunity to express admiration and thrill over having his contact.
- 20%: Requests for help. From pleas for financial assistance to basic needs like money for food, this category prompted Daddy Owen to extend small amounts of financial aid.
- 5%: Encouragement. This small group offered support and lauded his decision to perform, standing firmly in his corner.
- 5%: Silent flashers. These individuals repeatedly called and hung up without saying a word.
Navigating the Storm
Despite the barrage of negativity, Daddy Owen took the high road, making an effort to return some of the calls. He acknowledged that a few conversations led to fruitful exchanges where misunderstandings were cleared up. “The abuse was next level! But some were very understanding, and we ended up having great chats,” he noted.
The Mpesa transactions, though unexpected, added a comical twist to the ordeal. Some individuals sent him small amounts of money as a humorous way to “greet” him, a cultural nuance that turned an otherwise hostile experience into a moment of levity.
Daddy Owen’s reflections revealed resilience in the face of adversity. “In the end, those who genuinely wanted to communicate got what they needed. As for the rest? I received their greetings and took them in stride,” he concluded.
The Cost of Public Engagement
This incident underscores the challenges faced by public figures navigating polarized political and social landscapes. Daddy Owen’s experience highlights the fine line artists must tread when participating in national events, especially those associated with government leaders.
Despite the backlash, Daddy Owen’s willingness to engage with his audience shows his commitment to bridging divides and fostering understanding, even in the most unexpected circumstances.
