Diamond Platnumz, the celebrated Bongo Flava star, is a man of many talents and commitments. As he jets across the globe for performances and business engagements, his demanding lifestyle leaves little room for family time a reality that has sparked friction with his baby mamas, Zari Hassan and Tanasha Donna.
The artist recently opened up about the challenges of balancing his career with fatherhood, shedding light on the struggles he faces in maintaining relationships with his children while keeping up with the demands of his music empire.
A Grueling Schedule
Diamond’s whirlwind schedule has him traversing continents for major projects, often leaving him unable to spend quality time with his children. Over the past week, he traveled from Kenya to Paris and Morocco on back-to-back engagements. This constant movement, while a testament to his thriving career, underscores the personal sacrifices he has to make.
His two children with Zari Hassan daughter Tiffah and son Nillan live in South Africa, while his son with Tanasha Donna, Naseeb Junior, resides in Kenya. Maintaining a close bond with them proves challenging given the geographical distances and his limited availability.
The Strain on Relationships
The distance and missed moments have become a source of tension with his baby mamas. In a recent interview, Diamond reflected on the deep joy he experiences when spending time with his children. “There are so many things that can bring you joy, but nothing compares to the joy of being with your children,” he shared.
However, he admitted that his hectic schedule often prevents him from keeping up with family commitments. “I always try to make time for them, but sometimes my schedules get so tight that it causes fights with my baby mamas,” he revealed, highlighting the strain on his relationships with Zari and Tanasha.
Missed Milestones
One notable instance of this tension arose when Diamond missed his son Nillan’s birthday on December 6, a painful reminder of the sacrifices his career demands. He plans to celebrate the occasion belatedly upon his return but acknowledges the emotional impact of such absences. This follows another missed milestone his daughter Tiffah’s birthday in August 2023.
His frequent absences have reportedly led to heated arguments with his co-parents, who bear the brunt of raising the children alone while he travels. Diamond candidly shared how canceling plans with his children to attend to professional obligations often triggers these clashes.
Seeking Balance
Despite the challenges, Diamond remains committed to finding a balance. He expressed a desire to spend more meaningful time with his children and create memories that matter. “I want my kids to know I love them and care about them, even if I’m not always physically present,” he said.
To navigate these complexities, Diamond might consider establishing more structured co-parenting arrangements with Zari and Tanasha. These could include setting aside dedicated time for his children, even during his busiest periods, and involving his co-parents in planning schedules that work for everyone.
A Reflection of Modern Fatherhood
Diamond’s situation reflects the broader struggles faced by many modern fathers striving to balance demanding careers with active parenting. His candidness about the difficulties of managing fame and fatherhood serves as a reminder of the importance of communication, understanding, and compromise in co-parenting relationships.
While the journey ahead may not be easy, Diamond’s determination to remain a loving father is clear. His story underscores that even in the glamorous world of stardom, the most cherished moments are those spent with family.
