Nigerian music icon and father of seven recently opened up about the emotional weight of his separation from his wife of 12 years, and the intense public scrutiny that followed. Speaking in a candid interview, the 49-year-old shared how deeply affected he’s been by the flood of online comments and harsh judgments that came in the wake of his divorce announcement.
Reflecting on how he’s managed to cope with the pressure, he said that accepting responsibility for his actions was an essential first step. “Part of the answer lies in accepting responsibility for your actions—that’s key,” he explained. “I told myself, ‘You don’t have to deceive yourself because you’re only fooling yourself.’”
He acknowledged that the separation became a hot topic, and that being the subject of jokes, headlines, and constant social media commentary was tough to handle. “It hurts, man—it really gets to you,” he admitted. “But knowing this is just how the world works, you have to try to grow thick skin and remember that these things don’t define you.”
While social media has given fans and critics alike a front-row seat to celebrities’ lives, it has also become a space for harsh opinions and relentless trolling. The music star admitted that navigating that environment hasn’t been easy, especially when people turn personal pain into public spectacle.
When asked how he maintained his sense of self amid the chaos, he emphasized the importance of inner strength and self-awareness. “It doesn’t make me bad or a monster, you know?” he said. “Sometimes you even laugh at the jokes and things directed at you. You just see the humour.”
He shared that although it’s difficult, he’s learning to separate online noise from reality. The negativity doesn’t change who he truly is, and over time, he has found ways to protect his mental and emotional well-being. “You just have to remind yourself that these comments and criticisms don’t really define your worth,” he said.
In January 2025, the music legend made headlines when he publicly announced his separation from his wife on social media. The post, in which he expressed both love for his fans and a desire to be transparent, was later deleted. At the time, he claimed his account had been hacked, but shortly after, he posted a video revealing the truth: “Nobody hacked my account. Na me talk wetin I want talk, you understand? I come in peace.”
The couple shares two children together. However, their relationship has long been under public scrutiny due to the artist’s previous relationships, through which he fathered several children before and during his time with his wife.
Despite the emotional toll, he remains focused on personal growth and maintaining peace of mind. His message to those watching his journey is one of accountability, resilience, and above all, staying true to oneself regardless of the noise.
In the end, he’s not just dealing with a public breakup—he’s working through a very human experience under the gaze of millions. And while the pain is real, so is the strength he’s building in the process.
