Renowned actor and scriptwriter Abel Mutua recently opened up about his journey with his wife, Judy Nyawira, sharing heartfelt moments from their relationship. He recounted how he had to put aside his ego and ask Judy, who was then his girlfriend, for transport money to attend a Tahidi High shoot.
During a candid interview, Abel reflected on their first encounter and how he knew she was the one. The two met while studying at the Kenya Institute of Mass Communication (KIMC). At the time, Judy was trying to end another relationship. Despite being a well-known actor on the popular TV show Tahidi High, Judy had no idea about his career. This made Abel realize that she valued him for who he was rather than for his fame.
Abel humorously recalled their first date, emphasizing that it was far from glamorous. Despite his television presence, he had little money and could not afford a fancy outing. One of the most memorable moments for him was when he found himself stranded without fare and had to muster the courage to ask Judy for financial help to make it to a shoot. Looking back, he jokingly apologized for never reimbursing her, but he pointed out how far they had come as a couple.
Their relationship faced several obstacles, with friends advising Abel to steer clear of Judy due to her existing relationship. However, their bond grew stronger, and Judy eventually made the difficult decision to leave her abusive ex-boyfriend. According to Abel, any time they spent together led to Judy facing violence from her former partner, who was unwilling to let her go. After enduring enough pain, she sought solace in Abel, and they began their journey together.
Abel and Judy have since built a strong and lasting relationship, having been together for over a decade. Their love story is one of resilience, patience, and mutual understanding.
In a previous discussion, Abel expressed deep admiration for his wife, describing her as his best friend. He believes that in a successful marriage, spouses should share a strong friendship. While conflicts are inevitable, what truly matters is recognizing that life is unimaginable without each other.
Through the years, their relationship has stood the test of time, proving that genuine love and mutual support can overcome even the toughest challenges. Abel’s journey with Judy serves as a testament to the power of love, friendship, and commitment in a lasting marriage.
