Kenyan musician Kevin Kioko, popularly known as Bahati, has once again stirred online discussions with his latest remarks on relationships and finances. Taking to Instagram, the singer advised men without financial stability to refrain from dating, a statement that has since sparked widespread debate on social media.
Bahati’s post came as part of an ongoing celebration of his eighth wedding anniversary with his wife, Diana Marua. Over the past two weeks, the musician has been unveiling extravagant gifts for Diana, marking their milestone with luxurious presents. As he revealed the sixth of eight gifts, a lavish piece of lovers’ jewelry, he emphasized the role money plays in relationships.
“Dear Men, a respectful piece of advice. If you don’t have money, don’t date. That’s the only way you’ll stop calling women gold diggers,” Bahati stated in his post.
The statement has ignited mixed reactions among netizens. Some agree with the singer, arguing that relationships require financial investment and that a man should be in a position to provide for his partner. Supporters of Bahati’s stance believe that love alone is not enough to sustain a relationship in today’s society, where financial security plays a significant role.
On the other hand, critics argue that true love should not be based on material wealth. They believe that relationships should be built on mutual respect, emotional connection, and shared values rather than financial capability. Some have accused Bahati of perpetuating a materialistic perspective on love, suggesting that his comments undermine the essence of genuine relationships.
Bahati’s remarks on love and money come amid his grand anniversary celebrations. The musician has been pulling out all the stops to commemorate his eight-year journey with Diana Marua. Among the expensive gifts he has presented to his wife are a plot of land, a housing project, and luxurious items.
One of the most notable gestures in his celebration was getting a tattoo of Diana’s name, Diana B, inked on his arm. This bold move was seen as a testament to his unwavering love and commitment.
As the debate rages on, Bahati remains unapologetic about his views. Whether one agrees with him or not, his sentiments have undeniably fueled conversations about the intersection of love and money, a topic that continues to divide opinions in modern relationships.
