DJ Shiti recently opened up about his struggles with toxic family dynamics during an appearance on a popular show. The comedian, known for his wit and humor, shared deeply personal experiences that shaped his outlook on family relationships and betrayal.
During a candid conversation with the host, Boina, Shiti was asked whether he had ever faced toxic relationships within his family. Initially hesitant, Shiti eventually shared that he had dealt with numerous such situations, which he described as deeply painful yet enlightening. He compared these experiences to therapy, stating that they taught him valuable lessons about human nature.
Shiti elaborated on the common traits of African households, mentioning how family members, instead of offering support, often take advantage of one another. He explained how offering help to family can sometimes lead to trouble, and that the most significant conflicts often arise from those closest to you.
One of the most poignant moments in his story involved his father’s illness. Shiti explained how, despite sending money to help cover medical expenses, his father refused to go to a hospital, choosing instead to seek healing through prayers from pastors. This decision only worsened his father’s condition. Eventually, Shiti had to personally arrange for his father’s transport to Eldoret, which was an expensive and exhausting task, taking a toll on his career as he had to miss work opportunities.
Despite the sacrifices he made, Shiti faced criticism from people he considered close. Some even pressured him to stay back and prioritize family over his career, despite knowing how much it would affect his future. His frustration grew as he navigated these conflicting pressures.
Shiti also shared a troubling incident involving his sister. She, along with her husband, plotted against him, landing them in trouble with the law. Shiti’s sister was arrested, and the situation escalated quickly. His sister and her husband were detained without a trial, which Shiti found deeply unfair. As the situation worsened, they reached out to him, asking for his car logbook to secure their release. Though he was reluctant, Shiti eventually gave in after being persuaded by his mother.
The family then contacted him again, claiming that his sister was gravely ill in prison. Shiti was initially skeptical, noting that people often endure long prison sentences without dying, and questioned the legitimacy of the claim. However, feeling compelled to act, he eventually paid a reduced amount to secure his sister’s release.
Reflecting on these experiences, Shiti expressed his deep disappointment with the betrayal he felt from his family. He spoke about how some people, including those he had always considered close, seemed to wish for his failure. He found it particularly disheartening that, in today’s world, some people prioritize money over the value of family bonds. For Shiti, these experiences have been a painful reminder of how relationships can be tested, sometimes to the breaking point, by those who should be the most supportive.
