Harmonize, the CEO of Konde Music Worldwide, has recently shared his thoughts on his past relationship with Kajala Masanja, shedding light on a surprising change in his perspective. The two, who have had a turbulent romantic history since they first got together in early 2021, broke up amid controversy involving Kajala’s daughter, Paula.
In a candid interview, Harmonize explained that he now holds great respect for Kajala and revealed his intention to give her a special gift, one that he believes will leave an unforgettable mark on her life. When asked whether this gesture was an attempt to rekindle their relationship, Harmonize clarified that it was simply a thoughtful gift, independent of whether she is in a relationship or married.
“I have a deep respect for Kajala, and by God’s grace, I plan to do something meaningful for her, something that will be memorable throughout her life,” Harmonize shared. “It doesn’t matter whether she is married or not—she will understand when the time comes.”
This marks a stark contrast to his previous public statements, particularly the sentiments expressed in his song “Dear Ex,” where he criticized Kajala following their breakup. However, Harmonize explained that his shift in attitude is rooted in a growing sense of respect for her, especially considering that she is older than him. He acknowledged the pain he caused during their relationship and emphasized that, while he cannot undo the hurt, he is committed to showing her the respect she deserves.
“I always speak about Kajala with the respect she deserves because she is older than me,” Harmonize remarked. “Looking back, I realize that I caused her pain, and as a human being, I can’t undo that. But despite not being together anymore, she still deserves my respect, and that’s what I give her.”
The two have shared a complex romantic journey, starting in early 2021 when they briefly dated before parting ways due to the drama involving Kajala’s daughter. Their relationship had already been a subject of media attention, and after a year apart, Harmonize made a bold move to win Kajala back in 2022. He surprised her with an extravagant gesture, gifting her a Range Rover and organizing a lavish engagement ceremony at his Konde Village mansion. The grand gesture seemed to spark hope for their reconciliation, but the rekindled romance lasted only six months, quietly ending as the year 2023 began. Both of them kept the details of their split under wraps for some time, only subtly hinting at the end of their relationship on social media.
Harmonize’s decision to publicly speak kindly of Kajala marks a notable shift in his approach to their past relationship. Instead of focusing on the negatives, he has chosen to highlight the respect he feels for her, acknowledging that some relationships, while challenging, can still offer valuable lessons. This change of heart also demonstrates his growth and understanding, as he recognizes the importance of showing kindness and respect, even after the end of a relationship. Whether or not their paths will cross again in a romantic sense remains unclear, but Harmonize’s gesture to Kajala is a reflection of his maturity and desire to leave a positive legacy in their shared history.
