Music director J Blessing has recently made headlines after confirming his private marriage to songstress Bridget Blue. The news came to light following the public discovery of their marriage notice at the Attorney General’s office. This revelation sparked curiosity about his past relationships, as the music director has been romantically involved with several high-profile women over the years—most of whom are musicians. He also shares children with some of them.
J Blessing’s love life has been a topic of interest due to the notable personalities he has dated. One of his well-known past relationships was with veteran musician Avril Nyambura. The two are said to have started dating in 2017, after he directed one of her music videos. Their relationship led to the birth of their son in 2018, although Avril kept her pregnancy under wraps. Despite their quiet beginnings, the relationship ended and took a darker turn in 2023 when Avril accused him of abuse. While he admitted to some of her claims, he denied the abuse allegations. He emphasized that their primary focus was on maintaining a peaceful co-parenting arrangement for the sake of their child.
Another of J Blessing’s former flames is veteran radio personality Mwende Macharia. The two were together in 2014, but their relationship ended before Mwende realized she was pregnant. When she informed him about the pregnancy, he had already moved on. Mwende has previously shared that they were once headed toward marriage before hitting a rough patch. Despite their separation, the two have occasionally made public appearances together and share a son named Champ.
Chantelle, known for her song Toklezea, also had a relationship with J Blessing. The two suffered a devastating loss in 2015 when their six-month-old son passed away after developing complications following a vaccination. This tragic event deeply affected both of them and marked the end of their relationship.
Laika, another renowned singer, also had a child with J Blessing. Their relationship ended on a sour note after he reportedly denied paternity following the birth of their baby. Laika later opened up about her struggles with depression during that time, noting that she took a break from music to focus on motherhood. Things eventually turned around for her, and she later got married to a professional runner, with whom she welcomed a child in 2021.
Currently, J Blessing is married to Bridget Blue, who has chosen to keep her personal life away from the public eye. Despite the attention their marriage has attracted, the couple has requested privacy.
Meanwhile, there has been speculation about Avril expecting another child. She recently shared news of her pregnancy on April 1, prompting mixed reactions from the public. Some believed it to be an April Fools’ prank, while others took it as genuine and congratulated her. Avril continues to keep her private life closely guarded, with only a few in her inner circle aware of her current relationship status.
