Digital creator Lydia Wanjiru has ignited controversy with her bold stance on relationships, claiming that cheating while dating is an opportunity to find a better partner. According to Wanjiru, if a couple is not married, fidelity should not be an expectation. She argues that both men and women should explore their options freely until a formal commitment, such as marriage, is in place.
“Welcome to 2025. Everyone is allowed to cheat,” Wanjiru stated, adding that men often have children outside their relationships and continue as if nothing happened. She believes that men should not be pitied when they experience infidelity, as they are frequently unfaithful themselves.
Her remarks were prompted by Jos Wahome, a man who took to social media to lament being cheated on by his girlfriend, despite having invested in the relationship since 2023. Wahome’s experience sparked mixed reactions, with some sympathizing with him and others questioning the full story.
Influencer Winnie Njenga was among those who dismissed the sympathy directed toward Wahome, criticizing women who were consoling him. She argued that people were too quick to take his side without knowing the entire context of the situation.
Wanjiru’s comments have drawn a sharp divide on social media. Some users supported her view, highlighting the double standards in relationships where men are often excused for infidelity while women are shamed for seeking better options. Others strongly opposed her stance, emphasizing the importance of loyalty and respect in dating.
Critics argue that if someone is actively looking for another partner, they should remain single rather than betray the trust of someone they are dating. Many believe that relationships should be built on mutual respect and honesty rather than deception. Others pointed out that normalizing cheating weakens the foundation of trust, making long-term commitment difficult.
The debate raises an important question: Should relationships be based on exclusivity and loyalty, or should individuals be free to explore their options until they are married? While perspectives differ, one thing remains clear fidelity and commitment continue to be significant factors in defining modern relationships.
