Lilian Nganga chose a different way to mark a significant day in her family’s life. While her estranged husband Juliani celebrated his birthday with public tributes from friends and fans, Lilian remained silent on that front. Instead, she took to social media to celebrate the progress of their young son, who is nearly three years old. Her post, filled with warmth and pride, showed snippets of their little boy engaging in various activities — playing with toy cars, exploring hotel spaces, admiring a waterfall, and walking confidently in a lobby.
Though she didn’t reveal her son’s face, the shared video gave a glimpse of the toddler’s life and milestones, capturing tender moments that highlighted his curiosity and growth. In her caption, Lilian simply wrote, “Big boy, big love! A month older, two years and nine months,” choosing to mark the day with a tribute to her child’s development rather than any mention of Juliani.
Observers noted her choice as a subtle but clear message — prioritizing the celebration of her child over the expectations surrounding her past relationship. This gesture appeared to underline a deeper commitment to maintaining emotional boundaries while still focusing on co-parenting in a respectful, if private, manner.
The public noticed her silence on Juliani’s birthday, especially as he actively reposted birthday wishes from his fans and close friends. Still, Lilian’s choice to shift attention to her son’s achievements resonated with many, drawing positive comments on social media. Supporters remarked on how fast the child was growing and complimented his appearance, even with limited visuals.
Speculation continues around the status of Lilian and Juliani’s relationship, especially following rumors of their separation. Though the two were once publicly affectionate — having married privately in 2022 — recent months have seen a notable shift in their interactions.
Lilian’s recent public statements have also stirred conversations, particularly her suggestion that children should carry both their mother’s and father’s surnames. She questioned traditional norms that only recognize the father’s lineage, sparking debate across social media. While some were resistant to the idea, others supported her stance, noting that maternal names are already honored in various communities.
She has also reflected on her past relationships, including her previous marriage to a prominent political figure. According to Lilian, she felt she married too early and craved freedom later on. Despite their separation, she emphasized that they remain friends and continue to maintain mutual respect.
As for her relationship with Juliani, Lilian has spoken fondly of his intellect and creativity, qualities she says also shine through in their child. Her attraction, she noted, was never about appearance but about being mentally stimulated by someone thoughtful and imaginative.
By choosing to highlight her son’s growth instead of joining the birthday celebrations of her estranged husband, Lilian may be crafting a new narrative — one that centers on peace, boundaries, and quiet strength in motherhood.
