Comedian and influencer Mulamwah has once again sparked a heated debate on relationships and fidelity, offering advice to women on how to keep a man. Speaking during an interview with Dr. Ofweneke, the father of two emphasized the importance of women embracing their “feminine energy” rather than engaging in constant arguments. He controversially suggested that even if a man cheats, a woman remaining soft and feminine might lead him to stop and even come home earlier.
Mulamwah’s remarks have drawn mixed reactions, particularly because of his past experiences with infidelity. When asked if he would forgive his current partner, Ruth K, if she cheated, Mulamwah was quick to dismiss the idea, laughing it off and asserting that she is not that type of woman. His firm stance on not forgiving a cheating partner contrasts sharply with his advice to women, raising questions about double standards in relationships.
His comments come in the wake of his previous tumultuous relationship with his ex-partner, Sonie. In past social media interactions, Mulamwah has alleged that Sonie was unfaithful, even claiming to have evidence of her indiscretions. He recalled breaking up with her the first time after discovering she had been involved with another man for over a year. According to him, while he was dealing with stress and burning his shirts in frustration during the lockdown, Sonie was allegedly living with another man.
Mulamwah further alleged that neighbors had sent him videos of Sonie partying and kissing another man. Despite this, he claimed that he attempted to mend the relationship, even going as far as apologizing for her mistakes and ensuring she was pregnant before ultimately leaving.
Sonie, however, has consistently denied the allegations. She maintains that she was never unfaithful and has chosen to focus on maintaining respect for their child’s sake. She also refused to address claims regarding an attempted abortion, stating that she wants her child to grow up with dignity and not be subjected to online drama.
The unfolding of these events over time paints a picture of how personal experiences shape one’s perspectives on relationships. Mulamwah’s stance on infidelity appears deeply influenced by his past, making his advice to women even more controversial. While he preaches patience and endurance for women, his own approach to relationships suggests a far less forgiving attitude when the roles are reversed.
As time passes, the dynamics of relationships evolve, but the debate on double standards in love and fidelity remains as relevant as ever.
