Popular Kenyan media personality and comedian Oga Obinna recently shared a list of qualities he desires in a woman. Through a short video, he detailed his expectations, emphasizing personal responsibility, respect, and life skills. His candid and humorous delivery sparked conversations on social media, with many debating his criteria.
Obinna made it clear that he wants a woman with her own mind. He stressed that she should be capable of making her own decisions without relying on friends, family, fans, or even him. According to him, self-reliance is crucial in a relationship, ensuring that a woman can navigate life without unnecessary external influences.
He also emphasized that he prefers a woman who does not indulge in excessive alcohol consumption. He explained that intoxication often leads to losing control of one’s environment unless one is a professional drinker. This aligns with his next point he does not want a partner who smokes marijuana. To him, these habits compromise a person’s ability to make sound decisions.
Obinna stated that he does not want a woman who enjoys unnecessary conflict. He questioned why anyone would prefer a partner who is constantly engaged in arguments or fights over trivial matters. He values peace and maturity in a relationship.
He insisted that knowing how to cook is a basic life skill, not just for women but for everyone. However, he noted that for a woman, being unable to cook is particularly concerning. To him, this is an entry-level skill that one should acquire regardless of gender.
Obinna highlighted the importance of being industrious, stating that he values a woman who is ambitious and determined. He also believes a woman should not be excessively talkative, explaining that knowing when to speak and when to remain silent is a crucial social skill
Trust is a major factor for him, and he expressed a strong dislike for dishonesty. He humorously described a scenario where a woman lies about her whereabouts, only to be caught in the act. Additionally, he prefers a woman with a limited number of male or female friends, implying that fewer external influences help maintain stability in a relationship.
Obinna emphasized that a woman must respect herself before expecting respect from others. In his view, self-respect influences how others treat a person. He also wants a woman who loves children, clarifying that he is not referring only to his own children but to kids in general.
Spirituality is another key attribute for Obinna. He believes that a God-fearing woman brings stability to a relationship. He also touched on a sensitive topic body count. While he acknowledged that finding someone with a zero body count in today’s world is rare, he prefers a woman whose past relationships have been relatively few.
Lastly, Obinna stated that he prefers a woman with certain physical attributes, specifically mentioning curvy body features. While this is a personal preference, it was one of the more controversial points in his list.
Obinna’s candid revelations sparked mixed reactions, with some agreeing and others criticizing his expectations. Regardless of the debates, his list reflects his personal values and what he considers essential in a life partner.
