Rachel Otuoma recently revealed that after doctors in India privately informed her that her husband had approximately a year to live, she chose to keep the truth from him and his family. She recalled the emotional pain of watching him battle Motor Neurone Disease, knowing his days were numbered. Despite the prognosis, Ezekiel surpassed the predicted timeline before succumbing to the disease in December 2024.
Rachel shared in an interview that doctors had given Ezekiel a time limit on his life expectancy. This news came when they traveled to India seeking better medical treatment for his condition. However, she made the difficult decision to keep this heartbreaking news to herself, never revealing it to him or even his family.
She recalled the emotional turmoil she experienced, knowing that her husband’s time was limited while keeping up a brave front for him and their loved ones. She expressed how difficult it was to carry such a heavy burden alone, frequently breaking down in private while maintaining strength in front of Ezekiel.
Despite the devastating prognosis, Rachel was determined to make his remaining time as fulfilling as possible. With the help of well-wishers, she ensured he enjoyed memorable experiences. One supporter from Zimbabwe, who understood the severity of the disease, encouraged them to make the most of their time by engaging in enjoyable activities, such as going on dates and creating cherished memories.
Ezekiel eventually lost his battle with the illness in December 2024 and was laid to rest in January 2025 at his rural home. Before his illness, he was a celebrated footballer, having played for some of Kenya’s top clubs, including Ulinzi Stars and AFC Leopards.
Her emotional revelation touched many, sparking a mix of reactions online. Some believed that she should have informed her husband and his family so they could make the most of the time they had left with him. Others sympathized with her, acknowledging how difficult it must have been to bear such a painful secret.
One user expressed that every patient has the right to know about their condition, while another pointed out that family members should have been informed so they could cherish the remaining moments together. However, some praised Rachel for handling the situation maturely, recognizing her efforts to ensure Ezekiel lived his final days with love and joy.
In another discussion, Rachel addressed her decision not to shave her head after her husband’s passing. She clarified that in their culture, it is not a customary practice to do so. Both her mother-in-law and grandmother affirmed this, explaining that the tradition was not part of their cultural practices either.
Rachel’s story is a testament to the strength and resilience required to navigate the pain of losing a loved one while ensuring they find happiness in their final days. Her dedication to keeping Ezekiel’s spirits high, despite knowing the truth, highlights the depth of love and sacrifice she made for her husband.
