Renowned R&B singer and songwriter Shaffer Chimere Smith, popularly known as Ne-Yo, has been making headlines not just for his music but for his unconventional love life. The 45-year-old father of seven first revealed his polyamorous lifestyle in 2024, a revelation that sparked both intrigue and controversy.
Polyamory, the practice of engaging in multiple romantic relationships with the informed consent of all parties involved, is not a common concept in mainstream culture. However, for Ne-Yo, it is a reality he embraces fully. In a candid interview, he stated, “I didn’t know it was illegal. You should let people do whatever the hell they want to do. Can’t see how it’s hurting anybody… I don’t need the government to tell me what I can and can’t do in my personal life.”
Despite acknowledging that the lifestyle is not for everyone, Ne-Yo made it clear that he has no limit to how many women he can have relationships with. His three partners—Bella and Phoenix Feather, both OnlyFans models, and Arielle Hill—have publicly defended their relationship against criticism. Phoenix, in particular, took to Instagram to affirm their commitment, stating, “Over here it’s a solid foundation. We understand each other. We stand on 10 when it comes to each other. A lot of people will never understand that and that’s cool. Just know it’s US VS NOBODY.”
The trio often accompanies Ne-Yo on his music tours and social events, unabashedly flaunting their relationship on social media. They share glimpses of their extravagant lifestyle, from nightclubs to high-end parties, further fueling discussions on the nature of their bond.
Ne-Yo’s embrace of polyamory comes in the wake of his divorce from Crystal Renay in 2023. The couple had renewed their vows just five months before their split, which Crystal attributed to Ne-Yo’s repeated infidelity. She expressed her heartbreak, stating, “Eight years unknowingly sharing my life and husband with numerous women… To ask me to stay and accept it is absolutely insane.”
His former fiancée, Monyetta Shaw, also opened up about their past relationship, revealing that Ne-Yo’s insistence on threesomes was a major factor in their breakup.
Ne-Yo’s journey into polyamory continues to attract attention, sparking debates on the boundaries of love and relationships in modern society. While his lifestyle may not align with traditional norms, he remains unapologetic about his choices, carving his own path in the world of romance.
