Esther Musila, a 54-year-old businesswoman and budding musician, has made waves not only with her career but also with her unique bond with her daughter, Gilda Naibei. The two share a relationship that transcends the typical mother-daughter dynamic. In a recent episode on Gilda’s YouTube channel, where Esther was a guest, the two opened up about their close connection, revealing the special friendship they share.
Gilda, who is 30, began by describing their relationship as more than just familial; they are also friends who share an open and cordial connection. This deep bond has allowed for moments that might seem unusual to most families, such as the time when Gilda invited her mom to accompany her on a girls’ night out.
Reflecting on this experience, Gilda shared with excitement, “I took my mum to the club on your birthday. We used to club together!” The mother-daughter duo went out with Gilda’s friends, and Esther was able to witness firsthand the way her daughter and her friends enjoyed their night out. This, Gilda explained, was an opportunity for her mom to see how well they managed their behavior responsibly enjoying their drinks while maintaining control over the situation.
What stood out to Gilda was her mother’s curiosity and willingness to step into her world. “What I liked about it was that you wanted to see what we were doing,” Gilda said. “And you could see we were good. We took care of ourselves.” Esther’s open-mindedness allowed her to bond with Gilda in a way that many mothers might not experience with their adult children, demonstrating the level of trust and comfort between them.
While Esther listened with a smile, clearly pleased by the fond memories her daughter shared, she took a moment to reflect on the experience. She curiously asked Gilda if she found it odd to have her mother in her social setting. Gilda, with a gentle laugh, explained, “I allowed myself to be in your shoes. We’ve grown up together. Your generation’s things are crazy; it’s not like how you guys used to party.”
The open conversation between mother and daughter didn’t just stop at fun nights out. Esther also shared her reflections on motherhood and the journey of growing up. In an earlier session on Gilda’s channel, Esther, now a mother of three, spoke about her own fears when she was in her daughter’s shoes, especially when it came to starting a family. Gilda had previously expressed her concerns about the idea of becoming a parent at 30, feeling like she was still too young to take on such a responsibility.
Esther, who became a mother at 19, reflected on her own experiences. “I think things have changed,” she said. “It’s been 24 years – a whole two decades. What was a priority for me then is probably not for you now.” She shared how her pregnancy was unplanned, and how she never imagined getting married and starting a family at such a young age. “I used to say I’d get married at 26, hoping to have a good job and be stable. The 90s were different,” she reminisced.
Esther’s journey to motherhood came with challenges, including a memorable moment when her mother discovered her pregnancy. “She looked at my skin tone and thought I was a little lighter than usual,” Esther recalled, fondly remembering how her life shifted dramatically after that moment.
Today, Esther is a proud mother of three children Gilda, Glenn Naibei (known as Jamal), and Ki. She is also happily married to gospel artist Guardian Angel, though they do not have children together. Their story exemplifies the evolution of family dynamics over time, showing how relationships between parents and children can grow into deep, meaningful friendships.
Esther Musila and Gilda Naibei’s heartwarming bond is a testament to the power of understanding, communication, and support in family relationships. Their open dialogue and mutual respect continue to inspire many, proving that the lines between parents and children can blur, turning a typical family structure into something far more profound and beautiful.
