Gospel singer Kambua is celebrating a significant milestone in her life as her first-born son, Nathaniel, recently turned five years old. This celebration is particularly meaningful for Kambua, who has faced a challenging journey marked by years of childlessness, societal pressure, and personal loss. The singer, known for her powerful voice and inspirational messages, has not only shared her joy but also used her experiences to raise awareness about the struggles many women face in their journey to motherhood.
A Miracle After Years of Waiting
Kambua conceived Nathaniel after seven years of marriage, a period during which she faced intense pressure and scrutiny from society. The birth of Nathaniel, whose name means “gift of God,” was nothing short of a miracle for Kambua. Reflecting on her journey, she shared her thoughts on social media, expressing disbelief that her “incredible boy” had already turned five.
“This incredible boy of mine turned five yesterday. FIVE y’all! I can’t even believe it,” she wrote in a heartfelt Instagram post. “Wasn’t it just the other day that I made my first ever pregnancy announcement? It sure feels like it.”
For Kambua, Nathaniel represents more than just a son; he is a symbol of healing and renewed faith. “Nathaniel is the first of my babies that I ever got to hold. He came after loss, and deep heartache. God has used him to heal me in many ways and to reignite the faith of so many people,” she added.
The Pain of Loss and Societal Pressure
Kambua’s journey to motherhood has not been easy. After the birth of Nathaniel, she suffered the devastating loss of her second child, a pain she has been open about in her efforts to support other women facing similar struggles. Her third child, a daughter, recently turned two, adding another layer of joy and healing to her life.
However, Kambua’s path has been marred by the insensitive remarks and pressures from society, a reality that many women face. In the past, she has opened up about the hurtful questions and comments she received, particularly the constant inquiry, “Utazaa lini?” (When will you have children?). These questions, often asked casually, carry a heavy burden for those struggling with infertility or loss.
In a poignant Instagram post, Kambua addressed this issue, saying, “I’m wearing my heart on my sleeve to sensitize one another on the things we say, and their repercussions. But it’s not only on social media that we have been less than kind… it’s in our families, our workspace, our communities. Have you been a safe space for someone who is struggling with infertility or perhaps something else? If not, when you know better, you must do better.”
A Safe Space for Women’s Voices
Kambua has taken her experiences and channeled them into a podcast, “Being Kambua,” where she creates a safe space to discuss topics that are often stigmatized, such as infertility, miscarriage, and child loss. Through her podcast, she hopes to break the stigma and taboos surrounding these issues and provide a platform for others to share their stories.
“I began this community because I realized the shocking ignorance surrounding infertility, miscarriages, child loss, and overall maternal health. We can’t carry on with business as usual while women (and men) are falling through the cracks,” she explained on Instagram.
In her podcast, Kambua also delves into the complexities of being an “angel mom,” a term she uses to describe mothers who have lost a child. She shared the difficulty of introducing herself in this context, acknowledging the challenges that come with such profound loss.
Moving Forward with Hope and Purpose
As Kambua celebrates Nathaniel’s fifth birthday, she continues to inspire many with her resilience, faith, and determination to make a difference. Her journey, marked by both joy and sorrow, serves as a powerful reminder of the strength and grace that women embody, even in the face of adversity.
In her closing remarks, Kambua expressed her love and gratitude to those who have supported her and her mission. “In this space, you will get educated, you will learn how to sympathize and empathize. We will, together, learn how to hold space for one another. Because when we know better, we do better.”
Kambua’s story is a testament to the power of faith, love, and the enduring strength of a mother’s heart. As she continues to navigate her journey, she remains a beacon of hope for many who find themselves in similar circumstances, proving that even in the darkest times, there is always light and love to be found.
