A recent report by Mwelekeo Insights has revealed a shifting perspective on marriage among young women in Nairobi. According to the study, 51 per cent of Nairobi women are open to polygamous marriages if it guarantees economic transformation. This finding underscores the evolving priorities among women aged 18-30, as financial stability and career growth take precedence over traditional marital expectations.
The survey, which sampled 2,687 women, highlights a broader societal shift where independence and personal achievements are increasingly valued over marriage. A significant 59 per cent of respondents stated that marriage is not a prerequisite for a fulfilling life. Many young women prioritize financial stability and professional growth, with 80 per cent ranking these aspirations above marriage.
The report further indicates that highly educated and employed women are more inclined to deprioritize marriage than those with lower education levels. This suggests that economic empowerment plays a key role in shaping modern perspectives on relationships. Additionally, 60 per cent of surveyed women expressed concerns that marriage could negatively impact their personal freedom, making them hesitant to walk down the aisle. In contrast, only 25 per cent viewed marriage as a positive change, while 15 per cent remained neutral.
Religion continues to be a factor in shaping marriage perspectives, though its influence appears to be waning. While 53 per cent of respondents acknowledged that their religious beliefs influenced their views on marriage, 33 per cent stated that religion played a minimal role, and 14 per cent felt it had no impact. This shift signals a move towards more secular or individualized decision-making processes regarding marriage and relationships.
The report underscores a broader transformation in societal attitudes. Traditionally, marriage has been a cornerstone of African culture, often viewed as a measure of stability and success. However, as economic and social dynamics evolve, young women in Nairobi are redefining these norms. The increasing openness to polygamy, provided it offers financial benefits, reflects a pragmatic approach to marriage rather than one purely based on cultural or religious traditions.
“While marriage remains a culturally significant institution, evolving aspirations related to career growth, financial independence, and personal freedom are reshaping traditional perspectives,” the report noted.
As these trends continue to shape the future of relationships in Kenya, it remains to be seen how society will adapt to the changing expectations of young women regarding marriage and economic security.
