In a candid interview with Mungai Eve, renowned content creator Kabi WaJesus opened up about the challenges young people face in relationships, particularly regarding the rise in breakups. Kabi’s remarks shed light on a deeper issue of commitment, cohabitation, and the difficulties that many couples face in navigating modern relationships.
Kabi, who is married to Milly WaJesus, spoke passionately about the importance of commitment in relationships. He pointed out that many breakups occur due to a lack of a binding commitment, which can make it easier for individuals to walk away when things get tough. “I used to ask your ex (Trevor) what his intentions were with you. I would advise him to marry you so things could fall into place. I even asked you the same question. I wanted to understand what both of you wanted,” Kabi explained during the interview.
Kabi’s comments were rooted in the idea that without a solid foundation such as marriage a relationship can feel more disposable. He went on to share how, in his marriage with Milly, they have had their share of disagreements, yet the commitment they share has kept them together. “How many times do you think Love (Milly) and I have annoyed each other? Many times. But there’s so much holding us together that we can’t just wake up and say, ‘I’m done.’ Even if that were to happen, it would take time,” he said, emphasizing the importance of a deep connection and covenant.
The conversation delved deeper into the societal trend of cohabitation before marriage, with Kabi acknowledging that while he is not condemning those who cohabit, he believes it is not the ideal way to build a relationship. “If young people learn to do things the right way, future marriages will thrive,” he said. This statement struck a chord with Mungai Eve, who herself had lived with her ex-partner, Trevor, before they broke up.
Mungai Eve echoed Kabi’s sentiments, reflecting on her own experience and how she had entered cohabitation with Trevor out of a sense of desperation rather than a solid foundation of love and mutual understanding. “I moved in with Trevor because I didn’t want to stay at my parents’ house and had nowhere else to go. We barely knew each other, having met toward the end of 2019,” she shared. Her revelation highlighted a key issue that many young people face in modern relationships: entering into commitments due to external pressures or personal circumstances rather than genuine readiness.
This conversation between Kabi and Mungai Eve was a candid and insightful look at the pressures young people face when it comes to relationships. It underscored how, without a clear understanding of the importance of commitment and the right timing, relationships can quickly falter. Kabi’s advice, both to Trevor and Mungai Eve, pointed to the idea that understanding one’s intentions and taking the time to build a solid foundation is key to sustaining love over the long term.
In September 2024, Kabi shared further insights into his marriage with Milly, revealing the behind-the-scenes challenges that come with living in the public eye. He explained that sometimes, when they go silent on social media, it is because they are facing personal struggles. “Sometimes I feel like I’m forcing her to participate, and she might just be showing up for support. It gets frustrating,” Kabi said. His transparency about the highs and lows of his relationship is a reminder that even relationships that appear perfect on the surface require hard work, understanding, and commitment to thrive.
Kabi’s reflections on relationships, cohabitation, and commitment offer valuable insights for young people navigating the complexities of modern love. His message is clear: true commitment, often symbolized through marriage, can be the key to making a relationship last through the inevitable challenges that arise. By sharing his own experiences and struggles, Kabi is helping to foster a more honest and thoughtful conversation around love, commitment, and the importance of building strong, lasting relationships.