Kerry Martin, a renowned media personality, recently shared his perspective on relationships, particularly his choice not to openly declare his relationship status. During an appearance on The Morning Kiss, he expressed his belief that being too open about dating can lead to complications. When asked how one should respond if someone inquires about their relationship status, Martin revealed that honesty may not always be the best approach.
“If you give her the correct answer that person is gonna stop talking to you. Everybody is talking to someone,” he explained. Martin pointed out that when you’re involved with someone, it’s often a sign that you’re simultaneously engaging with many other people. The idea of revealing you’re talking to multiple people can make things complicated, he added. His advice for handling such situations was simple: “If you see potential in someone, just ghost the others they will get the message.”
Martin’s approach seems to stem from personal experience. He candidly shared how he’s now done with “baddies,” hinting at being cheated on in the past. He expressed his frustrations, saying, “I already made up my mind like I’m done with baddies. I just want buddies.” According to Martin, the effort he put into pleasing women he considered “baddies” only to be hurt by their actions led to his decision to focus on “buddies” instead. His frustration was evident, as he added, “The hard work that I put in just to please a baddie, then the baddie takes that hard work and rips it off like a piece of paper got me angry.”
Kwambox, a fellow personality, offered some advice, suggesting that Kerry should match the energy of the “baddies” if he chooses to get involved with one. He even hinted at a potential follow-up where Kerry would name names, fueling further intrigue about the nature of his past relationships.
Motivational speaker Sam West’s previous advice about recognizing signs of an uncommitted man such as hiding you from close circles or failing to communicate—also came to light during the conversation, as Kerry’s own experiences align with these observations.
Kerry Martin’s reflections shed light on his evolving approach to relationships, focusing on self-preservation and personal growth. As he puts it, he’s done talking, leaving fans to speculate about what comes next.
