Pierra Makena, a celebrated DJ, radio presenter, and actress, has been candid about the challenges and considerations that come with her role as a single mother. Recently, her daughter Ricca expressed a heartfelt desire for a sibling, specifically a baby brother, highlighting the unique dynamics and pressures that come with being an only child. Pierra’s response to this request reveals much about her personal beliefs and the practical challenges she faces.
During a conversation on the Churchill Show, Ricca voiced her longing for a sibling. “I am an only child. I have been forcing my mum to get a baby. I want a boy. I am a girl and I need a boy in case I am bullied, he can protect me. But I will appreciate whatever I get,” she said. This touching plea underscores the natural yearning many only children have for a sibling, someone to share their experiences and provide mutual support.
Pierra’s response was both practical and poignant. “In this economy, getting a brother is hard. I am a single mum. I have to have a man,” she explained. This remark sheds light on the economic and social realities that many single parents face. Raising a child is a significant financial and emotional commitment, and for Pierra, adding another child to her family requires careful consideration of her circumstances.
Ricca, with the innocence and urgency of childhood, countered, “The right man can wait, but a sibling has to come fast.” This highlights a common dilemma faced by single parents: balancing the desires and needs of their children with their own personal and financial readiness for another child.
In a previous interview with Oga Obinna, Pierra delved deeper into her personal journey and her status as an unmarried woman at 42. Despite her success and beauty, Pierra has yet to meet her ideal partner. “Who says there is an age one should be married? I have had people saying I am saying certain things because I am not married. I do not want to get married to the wrong person to please society. I have not met that one person who I can say ‘I want to spend the rest of my life with them,'” she asserted.
Pierra’s criteria for an ideal partner are clear and thoughtful. She desires a “God-fearing, hard-working man. Jitume, you do not have to be rich, a man who is clean and smells good. A good kisser.” These attributes reflect her grounded and realistic approach to relationships, prioritizing character and compatibility over societal pressures or material wealth.
When asked if she would ever initiate interest in a man, Pierra was unequivocal. “I would never hit on a man, what if he says no? I can use someone but I can’t do so directly. I have been rejected a couple of times before,” she confessed. This vulnerability shows that despite her public persona, she shares the same insecurities and fears of rejection that many people face.
Pierra Makena’s journey is a testament to the complexities of modern parenthood and the personal choices that come with it. While her daughter’s wish for a sibling is touching, Pierra’s careful consideration of her circumstances and her commitment to finding the right partner illustrate her dedication to making thoughtful and sustainable decisions for her family. In an era where societal expectations can often overshadow personal needs, Pierra’s honesty and pragmatism serve as an inspiring example of navigating life’s challenges with grace and authenticity.
