Prince Harry has shared heartfelt insights into his life in the United States, emphasizing that it aligns with the vision his late mother, Princess Diana, would have wished for him. Speaking at The New York Times Dealbook Summit on Wednesday, Harry opened up about his family’s move to Montecito, California, their pursuit of privacy, and the lessons he has carried from Diana’s tragic death in 1997.
Four years ago, Harry and his wife, Meghan Markle, the Duchess of Sussex, made a monumental decision to step back as senior royals, seeking financial independence and a life away from the relentless scrutiny of the British press. Their relocation to the serene coastal town of Montecito marked a pivotal chapter for the couple and their two children, Archie and Lilibet.
When asked if he envisioned staying in America for the long term, Harry responded with conviction. “I do,” he said, adding, “I very much enjoy living here and bringing my kids up here.” He credited the U.S. with providing his family a degree of privacy and freedom that he believes would have been unattainable in the UK due to security concerns.
The couple’s move came against the backdrop of Harry’s ongoing legal battles over his police protection in the UK, which was downgraded after he ceased being a working royal. Security and privacy remain paramount for Harry, whose mother lost her life in a Paris car crash while being pursued by paparazzi.
Reflecting on Diana’s struggles and his own experiences under the intense glare of public scrutiny, Harry said, “What happened to my mom and the fact that I was a kid and felt helpless there comes the inner turmoil. I felt helpless.” He admitted that the sense of helplessness has been one of his greatest challenges, a feeling compounded by fears that similar circumstances could harm his wife or children.
Prioritizing Family and Well-being
Harry highlighted his current priorities, underscoring his commitment to his role as a husband and father. “For now, my focus is on being the best husband and the best dad that I can be,” he shared.
Despite the Sussexes’ efforts to live a quieter life, they remain the subject of frequent media speculation. Harry humorously addressed the absurdity of rumors surrounding their relationship, joking, “Apparently, we’ve moved house and divorced 10-12 times. It’s just like, what? It’s hard to keep up with, but that’s why you sort of ignore it.”
While Harry’s focus was on family and mental well-being, Meghan made her own appearance at a glamorous fundraising gala in Beverly Hills the same evening. The couple continues to balance public engagements with their desire for a more private family life, reflecting their unique position as public figures navigating a self-crafted path.
Diana’s Influence on Harry’s Journey
Harry’s reflections on his mother underscored how her legacy continues to shape his decisions. Princess Diana was celebrated for her humanitarian efforts and her determination to provide a loving, stable environment for her sons despite the pressures of royal life. Harry’s move to the U.S. echoes that spirit of seeking freedom and protection for his family.
The Duke of Sussex’s candid discussion highlights the complexities of his life as a royal who has chosen a different path, balancing public obligations with private aspirations. By striving to create a nurturing environment for his children, Harry is honoring Diana’s memory in a way that resonates deeply with his own journey toward healing and fulfillment.
As the Sussexes carve out a new chapter in their lives, Harry’s words underscore their enduring commitment to family, privacy, and purpose a vision he believes his mother would have been proud to see.
