As Sharon K Mwangi, the popular podcast host, entrepreneur, and lifestyle and beauty digital content creator, prepares to celebrate her 30th birthday, she finds herself in a whirlwind of emotions. In her recent reflection on turning 30, Sharon admitted that nothing could have prepared her for the transition from “sister” to “auntie” a label she never anticipated, especially when street vendors start offering her “nguo za watoto” (clothes for children) instead of the trendy crop tops she once adored.
In her podcast and social media post, Sharon humorously voiced her frustrations, questioning the sudden societal shift that accompanies the milestone of turning 30. “When did the transition from ‘sister crop tops… siste crop tops!’ to being offered kids’ clothes happen?” she lamented, adding, “Why are they only offering me nguo za watoto pekee? Is there something about turning 30… or is there something that shows on your face that you are ripe of age, you are having children, and that you are not wearing crop tops anymore?”
Her candid remarks resonated with many of her followers, especially those approaching or already in their 30s, who shared similar experiences. Close to 400 fans flooded her comment section, recounting their own awkward moments when they realized they had crossed into a new phase of adulthood. Some, like Julie.k, humorously warned her, “Ngoja ile siku watakukimbiza ununue nduma” (Wait until they chase you to buy porridge), while others, like Fola Design, predicted, “It shall slap harder when you’ll pass on a road with kids playing, they’ll say, ‘Ngoja huyo mama apite’” (Wait until kids call you ‘that mama’ as you walk by).
But beyond the playful comments, Sharon’s reflection touches on a deeper, universal theme: the societal expectations and changes that come with age. In Kenya, the term “auntie” is often used as a sign of respect, but it can also carry an implication of maturity, responsibility, and an assumption that certain fashion choices—like crop tops—are no longer appropriate. Sharon’s plea, “Who told them that mums can’t wear crop tops too?” strikes a chord with many who feel pigeonholed by age stereotypes.
While turning 30 may be a daunting rite of passage for some, it’s also an opportunity for reinvention, self-discovery, and embracing new phases of life. Sharon’s open discussion invites others to reflect on their own age-related transitions and challenge societal norms with humor and grace.
