Willis Raburu, a well-known media personality, recently opened up about the enduring pain of losing his daughter, Adana, who was stillborn on December 31, 2019. In a heartfelt interview, Raburu shared his deep emotional struggle, recounting how he had eagerly anticipated fatherhood, only to be devastated by the loss. He described the moment as an “out-of-body experience” and spoke about the profound emptiness he felt, likening it to being robbed of a precious opportunity.
Five years later, Raburu continues to grapple with the grief, which can be triggered by seemingly mundane events, such as walking past a cold fridge in a supermarket. He expressed how society often focuses on consoling mothers in such situations, while fathers’ grief is overlooked. This neglect has been particularly painful for Raburu, who has found solace in speaking out about his experiences, despite the ongoing heartache.
Raburu’s reflections highlight the often unspoken emotional toll of child loss on fathers. His candid revelations shed light on the need for greater support and acknowledgment of paternal grief, encouraging a more inclusive approach to addressing such profound personal tragedies.
